Dear Lounge Advice, HI, We've been in the life style for 4 years.. The same issue keeps coming up with no resolve.. He is a pefectionists .. I go with the flow.. We host house parties so hubby feelings comfortable but still I run into him feeling not "happy" or didn't " have a great time" and this is after he had sex with a beautiful young girl!! What is going on? He's never satisfied.. I just don't get it.. Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), Sounds like you two need to have a heart to heart talk with him about how he is feeling or perhaps you are misreading his responses. Only he can tell you why he is feeling the way he's feeling. Sincerely,