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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Now I don't know if I can trust him.
Does the lifestyle break up couples?
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Glory Hole any where near the Twin Cities area?
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Question: How do you know when the time is right to switch from soft swap to full swap?

Dear Lounge Advice,

How do you know when the time is right to switch from soft swap to full swap. We'd always said we would never do it but we met another couple that we are thinking about it with and need some advice



Dear (Anonymous),

There should be no rush to swap...but if the mood is right and the feelings are mutual between all parties involved...it can't hurt to spread you wings a little bit and take things to the next level.

As long as you and your partner are in agreement it sounds like you two are ready to try something new:)

It might not be a bad idea to let your potential "swap" partners know that this is your first time trying it.
It might help explain things to them if nerves or anxiety set in during play time. Hopefully they can help you relax and move past that and onto some great sex and fun.


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