Dear Lounge Advice, We have had some experiences in LL and it has been fun. However, I am ready to take a break. I really do not feel comfortable in LL for many reasons. But my husband is just getting into it. He is loving it and as soon as I mention I want out, he pouts like a baby. I love him and want him to be happy. He is in such better mood when we are active in LL. Please help. Anonymous Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), If both of you are not in agreement to play or participate in the lifestyle then perhaps a break for the sake of your relationship is in order. Your marriage and relationship should always come first...the lifestyle will always be there when you are ready to return. Sincerely,