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Question: I love my partner, but he doesn't love me. Is this for us?

Dear Lounge Advice,
I'm in love with my friend that I signed on with but he's not in love with me, but says he cares about me, do you think it was a good idea that we joined?

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Well, if you think that you can keep your feelings at bay for him while partaking in the lifestyle, then it is your decision. However, this sounds like the type of situation that could breed trouble if you encounter a situation in which he is attracted to another female. Jealousy can sometimes be indiscriminate. This lifestyle may cause more harn than good for both of you, and you have to decide if your friendship can endure such a test.
I must warn you though, that many couples can easily discern whether another couple is totally committed and in love. If others don't get this feeling from you, they may balk at taking things any further than friendship.
I would have a serious talk with your partner about the repercussions of doing this together. Think hard about it yourself. The answer to this is really in your hands.
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