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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
How do you get a metal cock ring on?
Does this make me a cuckold?
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Am I allowed to be on LL and will others understand I am part of a couple but seeking adventures on my own?
seeking to find cuckold situations in real lifeā€¦
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Relationship Advice
there is never enough time….
Is he hitting spots I will never be able to hit
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
Do you know of anyone that would be in swinging that gives such a massage?
Any suggestions as to clubs, and how we set boundaries?
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Question: This isn't my scene!

Dear Lounge Advice,
I am not a part of LL, but the guy I am currently seeing is. I like him a lot and have met people from there, but that is not my scene.
What do I do?



Dear (Anonymous),

If you met him after he had been on the site for a while, then you have two choices:

1) Tell him you feel uncomfortable with this, but don't expect him to give it up if he was already a part of it before you. If he is really into you, he will consider your feelings and perhaps act accordingly. However, as a woman, I'd be hesitant about appearing in a guy's life, commencing to try changing him.

2) If he is unwilling to back out of this, it may be your responsibility to either accept that as a part of him, or move on.

In any event, tell him how you feel.
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