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Question: What are swing club rules on pre-op transsexuals? Can I attend?

Dear Lounge Advice,

Are people like me, male-to-female
pre-op transsexuals not allowed in clubs or
to be in the swing lifetyle? I wrote a club
here in my state(Indiana) and they won't say
whether I can attend or not.
Would you please give some advice on this.
Seymour,IN USA



Dear (Anonymous),

We do not know any rule book that exists in the lifestyle that says who can and cant be in or discriminates in any way to sexual preferences. We have actually seen some people that looked like they may be transexuals in some of the South Florida clubs, though honestly it is rare.

Would would advise you to just go and see for yourself and hopefully you will be able to judge for yourself how accepting the people are, and we can only hope that no matter what ...they will be kind. Even people who are more accepting to an alternative lifestyle can be unfair.

Being a couple who by personal preference would not be interested in playing with a transexual in the same way that we do not play single guys... we would hope that you would be upfront and honest with any couple you would meet there.
Good Luck !

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