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Question: Single male just starting out

Dear Lounge Advice,
I just wanted to express the nervous feeling I have being a single male and trying to meet new friends, seeing the majority of the members are couples. I love the site and I just wanted to ask for advice on how to approach a couple without offending them in any way. Is this feeling of anxiety common? I know I'm a newbie but....Thank you for your time, take care


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Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Actually, if you approach couples, that is probably the easiest way to fail in the lifestyle as a single male. You need to wait for them to approach you, period.
So, with that in mind, you'll need appealing, classy photos, a well-written profile and a lot of patience. Get involved in the chat room and the forums and remember to mind you manners. The more you advertise yourself, and show everyone that you're a gentleman, they more likely you are to get approached.
I met my significant other in this lifestyle as a single male, but I approached him first. He never made the first move when it came to couples, and always proved himself to be nothing but a respectful gentleman. The time and effort he put into his profile and his forum/chat participation quickly garnered him attention from couples. I was so impressed by his manners that I wanted him around me as much as possible.
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