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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
My fantasy is simply being with a man that wants to be with 'only me' and loves me most of the time. I really don't think he does any more.
How can I help her to feel more comfortable about returning to the lifestyle?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
We are new to this site and the lifestyle.
How do we expand and see more near us ?
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Question: How do we form successful friendships?

Dear Lounge Advice,

We are new exclusive members of the site. We were told by someone that people respond if we are real ... but that needs to be endorsed by already real member. Where do we start?

We want to meet couples for both friendship and intimacy. However, it seems that people are only interested in sex and nothing else.

Would you be able to check our posting (handle = CosmicChocolate) and give us a feedback what others see in the posting? We understand that you would be giving your point of view but we were hoping that with your experience would be able to give us a direction for successful friendship.



Dear (Anonymous),

Really, your profile seems flawless. Your intentions, likes/dislikes, personalities and preferences are clearly stated. The information put forth is quite lucid and forthright. Since friendships seem to be your main priority, I suggest that you alter your profile slightly by placing that information at the beginning of your text, instead of further down, as it currently is. If (and I stress the word 'if') people do read the body of your profile, you'll want that to be their first impression. We're ardent advocates of a well-written, thorough profile, as is proof on our personal bio on LL. Unfortunately, not everyone reads the profiles, and if they do, they may not read it in its entirety.
Be sure to express your desire for friendship adamantly in your communications as well. For those who may have missed it in your profile, this will convey your wishes.
Also remember that you are on a site that is geared toward sex, so your realization that most on here are only seeking sex is partially correct. Compared to most sites though, you will find this to be one of the best for finding steadfast friends. We've found no better site for doing so.
All you need is a bit of patience and a willingness to express your intentions clearly to those with whom you communicate. You've only been here for a couple of months, which is a miniscule amount of time for the goal you wish to attain. Endurance will aid in reaping your rewards.

If you are interested in becoming validated (real), LL allows you to submit a photo of yourself holding a dated sign to receive your real seal. It isn't necessary for you to meet another member in order to receive your seal. Check the homepage for further instructions.

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