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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
My fantasy is simply being with a man that wants to be with 'only me' and loves me most of the time. I really don't think he does any more.
How can I help her to feel more comfortable about returning to the lifestyle?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
We are new to this site and the lifestyle.
How do we expand and see more near us ?
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Question: Split up but still swinging together. Will it work?

Dear Lounge Advice,

I discovered the lifestyle with my now ex-boyfriend. We still talk, though we have seperate profiles on here. Even though we have been "seperated" for over three weeks, we did end up going to a club together.

Are we nuts and heading for disaster or does this actually work sometimes?

Thanks for you help,




Dear (Anonymous),

This is a 'Magic Eight Ball' question. Without knowing the dynamics of your realtionship with him (or lack thereof), I cannot tell you if it will work or not. Sometimes it works, and sometimes it doesn't.
I will tell you though, that many couples will not swing with people that are not in an established relationship. Good luck!
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