Dear Lounge Advice, I discovered the lifestyle with my now ex-boyfriend. We still talk, though we have seperate profiles on here. Even though we have been "seperated" for over three weeks, we did end up going to a club together. Are we nuts and heading for disaster or does this actually work sometimes? Thanks for you help, J Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), This is a 'Magic Eight Ball' question. Without knowing the dynamics of your realtionship with him (or lack thereof), I cannot tell you if it will work or not. Sometimes it works, and sometimes it doesn't. I will tell you though, that many couples will not swing with people that are not in an established relationship. Good luck!