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Question: Split up but still swinging together. Will it work?

Dear Lounge Advice,

I discovered the lifestyle with my now ex-boyfriend. We still talk, though we have seperate profiles on here. Even though we have been "seperated" for over three weeks, we did end up going to a club together.

Are we nuts and heading for disaster or does this actually work sometimes?

Thanks for you help,




Dear (Anonymous),

This is a 'Magic Eight Ball' question. Without knowing the dynamics of your realtionship with him (or lack thereof), I cannot tell you if it will work or not. Sometimes it works, and sometimes it doesn't.
I will tell you though, that many couples will not swing with people that are not in an established relationship. Good luck!
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