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Question: The man of a couple grabbed my husband's crotch unexpectedly

Dear Lounge Advice,
We were recently at a house party and were in the hot tub with another couple. While the girls were having a good time and the guys were behind their own partners, the guy of the other couple grabbed my husbands crotch. This made my husband very uncomfortable. He did not say anything just pulled away. He told me what had happened and we got out of the hot tub. We avoided this couple for the remainder of the night as much as we could, but they seemed to be following us wherever we went. Their profile states that he is straight. They have sent us a couple of e-mails which we have not yet responded to. Our questions is, do we confront them or ignore it?

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Tell them that you were very uncomfortable with what happened that night. He needs to know that what he did was unacceptable behavior, not only because of the nature of what he did, but because he did it without warning.
It's quite all right if that's what he's into, but he should be aware that it's not every couple's cup of tea, and that action without asking is rude, no matter what it is.
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