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Is something I could do??
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Question: Single male wanting better odds

Dear Lounge Advice, My ex-wife and I used to "swing" maybe 10 years ago but now divorced I am seeing the single side of things and am feeling like I have no shot in this Lifestyle. I have been on the LL 2 times and rarley ever even get a member to reply to an email. I am not a verified member yet as I live 6 hours away from any action. What can a guy like me do to increase the odds of meeting playmates? Thanks :)



Dear (Anonymous),

Make sure your profile is filled out completely. Make it as detailed as possible and try to steer away from only talking about sexually related topics. Give people an insight into your intellect and personality. Also, be sure to have a good array of flattering photos posted.
If you want to boost your popularity, get really involved in chat and forums, and be polite and respectful. Just be yourself, don't act desperate or depraved and be patient. It takes a single male a while to build a good reputation, but if you follow that advice, it will happen with time.
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