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Question: How do we find a decent single male

We are a new couple to the lifestyle who want to start our experience out with meeting attractive single men to fulfill my wifes fantasies of a MMF and/or me photographing the two of them. Do you have any suggestions or advice the best location to meet, how to "interview" the man, and how exactly do we move forward to next steps. Thanks.



Dear (Anonymous),

I suggest going into the forums to ask for 'recommendations'. Most of the forum participants have been to many lifestyle events, and at these lifestyle events, a few select single men are invited. The ONLY way most of these single men are being invited is because they are decent, attractive and respectful. Being a couple, you can afford to be very picky when it comes to single men, since single men don't often get the opportunity to be invited into a couple's bed. Once you get a good recommendation, check out the profile and go about contacting him. Preferably, you'll want to get him on the phone and get a general feel for his attitude toward the lifestyle and whether he's pushy or respectful. Once you get a good vibe (and please, trust your gut) meet him in a public place to attain a personal vibe, then proceed from there at your own comfort level.
Just remember, that being a couple, you have the upper hand. Many single males would be honored to be a part of your fantasy. So, please, be sure to dictate your rules according to your comfort levels. And, never feel bad about saying 'no thank you' to anyone who gives you less than favorable vibes.
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