Dear Lounge Advice, I had an old girlfriend who we both enjoyed the lifestyle. We were not in it very long, maybe a year or so. My girlfriend has moved to FLA for her job and I am stuck here in IL. I am looking to stay in the lifestyle but have been having trouble meeting people. Everyone seems to be looking for the females along with myself. How do I meet new people in the lifestyle being a single male? Any advice would be appreciated. And by the way the looks decent wagon did not pass me by. Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), Please check the advice archives. There is a wealth of advice there that should help you find your way!