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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
How do I use this website to find someone?
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
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Now I don't know if I can trust him.
Does the lifestyle break up couples?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
What swing club or clubs in Las Vegas are couples only?
Glory Hole any where near the Twin Cities area?
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Question: How do I get my wife involved?

Dear Lounge Advice,How do I get my wife to swing? She don't like women,she does like big cock. she said she has to have more than sex with some one. I was going to have a friend over she don't know. And have him flatter her, we would have a few drinks,talk about sex toys and things like that, and have him bring out his large member for her to see. after we talked about size of cock. I would give them some time with out me around for him to make his move. She told me she could not do it with me there & than I would walk in. She would not know all this was set up. what do you think? Thanks



Dear (Anonymous),

Are you actively seeking a divorce? Because if you are, this is the way to get one. You don't need to deceive your wife into swinging. Why don't you just talk to her about bringing another man home? She might be more willing that way. If you set her up, she might feel violated or betrayed, and it would most likely backfire on you, no matter how kindly your intentions may be. If she has no idea that you're setting up this scenario, she won't have sex with the man for fear of of betraying you, or for fear of offending you, since she doesn't realize you're really ok with it.
In the lifestyle (or in the hopes of the lifestyle) there is nothing more important than sound communication. Please communicate with your wife for the sake of your relationship. If she's not interested, leave it at that. Don't push, or we're back to the divorce issue.
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