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Question: Should I tell his wife he tried to do me w/o a condom?

Dear Lounge Advice,
I was with the male half of a couple just recently, with permission of course from the Mrs.
We had a great time! My problem is just before there was penetration he started to put it in without a condom. I said, "what no condom?" and he said, "not right now." I said, "no,you need to get one." He did. My question is, do I tell his wife? She and I have talked we aren't close friends but we have talked. I don't want to start trouble but should she know that this is what he did with me? What if I'm not the only one?

Please help!! I havn't told anyone but you. I don't know if I should. Not even my friends. I feel like I'm keeping a bad secret and I don't like it!

Sincerely,
Confused


Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

This depends. If she has a rule about him having to use a condom if he's with another woman, then she needs to know that he tried to weasel his way around the rule. If you're not sure whether it's a stipulation she has in place with him, then perhaps you should ask her.
All you have to do is bring up your own rules for using condoms and casually ask her if she requires her hubby to wear a condom. If she indicated that it's his choice, then there's nothing to tell her. As long as you followed your own rules and made him put one on, you did the right thing. If she tells you that he must wear a condom, let her know gently that he tried to ride bareback. She should know if he's trying to be sneaky.
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