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Question: My wife is uncomfortable with female/female interaction. Will we have problems finding playmates?

Dear Lounge Advice,

Something I have noticed on almost every profile of couples is that the female is Bi or Bi-Courious. My wife and I are straight. My question to you is, do couples with Bi or Bi-Courious females expect FF interaction or is that something that is left open? Will we find it difficult to find other couples who will full swap without FF interaction? I would not mind it, however my wife is uncomfortable with FF and I will respect her completely.
Thanks.

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

As we have stated before, in the lifestyle, every couple decioed for themselves what they are ok with doing- and what they are not ok with doing.

What you must do is just be upfront and honest with people and tell them your limitations. If you see a profile that says that the couple is looking for single bi females or couples with bi-females then you can probably assume that is their desires, but it doesnt hurt to ask.

Send them an email and ask if they would consider meeting a couple that does not have a bi female.

With the numbers of people in the lifestyle we do not think you will have much of a problem, but if your wife is uncomfortable with another woman. You are doing the right thing by respecting that. Who knows, she may change her mind down the road, but it has to be her decision that she makes on her own.

In the meantime, enjoy what you want to do together as a couple!
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