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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
My fantasy is simply being with a man that wants to be with 'only me' and loves me most of the time. I really don't think he does any more.
How can I help her to feel more comfortable about returning to the lifestyle?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
How do we expand and see more near us ?
I was thinking to try to meet a girl on the site to go to parties with, any advice?
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Question: I only want the female

How would I go about asking for just the female without her husband being offended about it? My husband would let the male fuck me but honestly I only want the female and could just the dudes jack off or something by the side of bed I guess. How would I ask this?



Dear (Anonymous),

Just indicate to them that you are in the mood for girl-girl instead of swapping this time out. This is perfectly acceptable in many lifestyle situations. There are many couples who only do girl-girl, so don't be afraid to tell them what you desires are. By asking for simple girl play, you're not indicating that you're not into the guy, so feelings won't get hurt. Be sure to tell the guys something to the effect of "I'd love for you guys to watch us, since that would be a big turn-on to know someone's watching the fun".
You could even have your hubby tell the other guy that you're in a girl-girl mood and he can suggest that they both sit back and watch the hot action.
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