Dear Lounge Advice, After paying for a membership I am finding out that most on this site are looking for females or coulpes. I am a SWM, I haven't found anyone in my searhes that are looking for a single male. Did I join the wrong site? Could you please give some advice on what do or maybe another legit site to check out? Thank you for time and energy, your input would be deeply appreciated. Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), Go to the advice archives. There you'll find a LOT of questions similar to yours that have been fielded over and over. Good luck, and if you need something more specific, come back and see me.