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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
Does the lifestyle break up couples?
How do I reel him back in or can I?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
Any thoughts? Any resources, swinger sites, clubs, well-known
What can a SM do in the crazy world of LA swing?
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Question: Chances of meeting a like-minded lady?

Dear Lounge Advice, I am an attractive, 42 YO male that has been somewhat active in the Lifestyle with a former partner for 3-4 years. Our relationship is over and I am currently not in a steady relationship. I still love the lifestyle and have attended a couple events as a "single". . . bumber! I just feel like the 5th wheel. . . and hate rejection. What are my chances of meeting female that has the same interest I do? Any advice for how to approach the situation. Am financially able and willing to travel. . I am attractive but not a body builder. . . are there young ladies out there looking to possibly attend the HEDO party with a mate rather than being a "single". . . not necessarily looking for a long term relationship, but you never know.
Thanks for your advice.



Dear (Anonymous),

Your chances are slim, but they do exist. I'd recommend that you visit the archive section of the advice column to make use of the wealth of information and advice already available to men in your situation. If you are still unsure about something, please don't hesitate to revisit me.
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100's of answers to your lifestyle questions can be found here!