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Question: Is it too soon for us to enter the lifestyle?

Dear Lounge Advice,

I am with a fabulous man. The sex is amazing. The best I've ever had and he says the same. I've been together for six months and just recently declared our love.

I know each couple is different but how long should a couple wait before branching out...sharing? He is bi and I am most curious about being with women. He was in the life with his ex and while single. I love to try new things.

Perhaps a better way to ask is, how do we know when we, as a couple, are ready for more?




Dear (Anonymous),

You just know. There's no 'set' time for a couple to be together before they should venture into the lifestyle. If you feel ready to explore, do it!! As long as your relationship is strong, your communication skills are superb and there is absolute trust, you're ready.

Now go explore already!
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