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Question: I like this guy, but he's still meeting women on an adult site

Dear Lounge Advice, I met this guy on an adult site, I initially was just feeling like nobody, so I met him thinking he was going to be a prink and fuck me and send me on my way. But he turned out to be so sweet and nice, we have been seeing each other for over 2 weeks. We got on Lifestyle Lounge together, but he emailed a woman telling her we were not exclusive and he wanted to meet her. This really hurt my feeling. He said he would never cheat on me, Im so confused. So were not exclusive or are we. I guess not. Should I just forget him.

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

It's pretty apparent that you two are not exclusive. At no time did you come to that agreement. That much is apparent. Also, you met him on an adult site. Did you really expect him to quit the adult site cold turkey and stop meeting women after two weeks? I think your expectations are a bit too high of this man. I understand that you may feel something for him. However, after two weeks, it's not fair to get upset at him over this. If you really feel that this could become something more, and you desire exclusivity, talk to him. But he did nothing wrong.
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