Dear Lounge Advice, Getting frustrated with being hung out to dry, wife gets fucked, but by the time she gets home she is too tired to take care of me the hubby. This is happening everytime, seems she has the energy for everyone but me. I have explained it to her, but I get the impression it's not a big deal to her, so nothing changes. Very frustrating, don't know what to say or do. Lost and frustrated. Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), You should put a stop to her sleeping with other people, period. She should be putting the relationship first. If she won't, then you both need to reevaluate your lives together. Don't be soft about this. It's time to put your foot down, and hard!