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Question: How do approach our single male about splitting the cost of a room?

Dear Lounge Advice,

This is the female of a married couple. We're pretty much all about mfm threesomes. When we meet a single male for the first time, we always pick up the cost of the hotel. My question is if we make plans to meet this male for a second meeting or third one, etc... & he doesn't offer to help split the cost how do we approach the subject w/out anyone feeling awkward?


just curious



Dear (Anonymous),

Don't give him an option. Just tell him, "Hey, we're going to split the cost this time okay" (nicely) This way, you're not beating around the bush, allowing for awkward moments. This is one of those times that is like pulling off a bandaid. The quicker and more direct your approach, the less pain.
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