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Question: I don't want kissing during our play!

Dear Lounge Advice,

My husband doesn't agree with me about kissing in a full swap situation with one other couple. I will do and let him do everything sexual, but I feel jealous at the thought of him having long passionate kisses with the other female. I have met other couples who also feel that kissing is a very intimate act that is often accompanied by emotion and so they don't allow kissing as a form of foreplay.

What do we do?

Confused about kissing

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Simple. Keep your rule in place. If it's something you don't feel comfortable with, don't do it. End of story! Your partner needs to respect that. Of course, this means that you won't be doing it either.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with a no-kissing rule. Stick to your guns and have fun.
I started out with your same philosophy. The rule didn't last forever, but it lasted as long as I was comfortable with it.
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