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Question: My friend is flirting WAY too much

Dear Lounge Advice,
I have a friend on here who seems to always be flirting with men from other states to the point they are confused of the real feelings they have for her. They tend to forget that the chatroom is just chat, and the phone is phone and there is nothing more on her side. I am almost seeing an attached man's relationship get ruined due to her behavior, and men almost willing to move for her. I honestly dont understand her need for this attention she seems to be lacking in her life to behave this way, and I see her personal life take the backseat to be lusted after by all these men. I know some of these men that she is doing this to. Do I just stay out of it (my first gut), talk to her subtly about it? I just dont want to see anyone get hurt when I realize but the men do not that they are not the only ones.

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

She seems like she's addicted to the attention. If you are her friend, you need to have a serious talk to her about this. She can't continue to scramble up others' emotions purely for personal gain.
If you have the power to change this, take the responsibility to do it.
Were I in you shoes, this is what I would do.
What she is doing is wrong.
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