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Question: My boy toy is confusing me

Dear Lounge Advice,My new boy toy is confusing me when he is horny or excited he stays hard for a long time but he rather masterbate himself than be with me or even play with me he likes to go on the computer and look at pictures of just hand jobs I dont get it and it makes me feel alone and I loose all my desire to want to cum or now I cant even masterbate with my toy now when I use to never have a problem Can you please tell me how to handle this I have even offered to join in to help him he rather do it alone or at the computer I just dont understand how he can choose this over me laying naked in bed and even stating that I am horny. Please help me to try to understand or how to convert him to having intercourse with me or masterbating together something because I cant handle this self esteem wise. PleASE HELP ME



Dear (Anonymous),

This is obviously what he's used to. He's probably been doing this long before you, so it's his habit. If he's so used to it though, tell him he can go back to this if you're less desirable than his hand. He can't have his cake and eat it too. (or not eat it as this is the case)
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