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Does this make me a cuckold?
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Question: Goody bag items?

Dear Lounge Advice,

The answer may be somewhere that I haven't looked but...

Any recomendations for items to keep in the goody/travel bag? Being a bit new to this we're not sure what to take with us when we plan a "date".

The obvious items are condoms, lube, wipes, mints, toothbrush etc...

If we take toys is there a problem with them being our own toys or should they be for LS use only?

Don't want to be unprepared but also don't want to seem too eager either.



Dear (Anonymous),

They can definitely be your own toys, as long as they've been cleaned and sanitized first. A personal washcloth might help too if you don't want to use the company's linens to wipe up *ahem* personal fluids from yourself. I also recommend some Viagra. It has come in handy more than just once for a partner who is having dificulty performing. Often, Viagra has meant the difference between a night of lust or a regular bust.

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