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Question: My partner is on single sites!

Dear Lounge Advice,

For some unknown reason my partner of 4 yrs has a unquinshable desire for vanilla single dating sites. He posts profiles on them and then communicates with the women supplying them with his email address and occassionally his cell number. He then frequently communicates with them via IM or phone calls. He claims he is doing just for a "test". One to see if I'll snoop and discover it and second of all to see "how many fakes there are". He also claims that he does not have the time or the money to date. I am at my wits end and really am looking for confirmation that I should kick his cheating ass to the curb. Any thoughts???

Thank you!



Dear (Anonymous),

Not cool. Not cool at all. He's full of bullshit and I'm sure you know it. His reasons are completely assinine! He is acting as if you're stupid. Are you? Nope. I didn't think so. This doesn't sound like someone you can keep around for long-term anymore. You deserve better treatment than this. Find someone who deserves you..........please.
That's completely ridiculous!!!
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