Dear Lounge Advice, Is there a way for a married man, in an open relationship, to find a female lifestyler, or do I have to wait until my next lifetime? Thank you. Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), It's very rare. I'll not lie. You will encounter a very dificult time finding this. So, you can either be VERY patient and persistant, or just count this as an unrealized dream and move on.