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Question: In a 'loose' type of marriage, wondering if I should branch out

Dear Lounge Advice,
I am married but my wife of 34 years and I are now basically good friends living together. Based on things that happened over the past few years, I don't care if she does anything on the side. Most evenings she is out, but is home about 10 or 11pm. We appear to be in a don't ask don't tell situation. She is very good looking and has a great figure. I'm as good looking and am in very good shape (gym every day before work). Physical opportunities for me with other women are starting to appear. Any comments about the above would be appreciated.



Dear (Anonymous),

It sound like you should start looking into these opportunities if all that you say about your situation is true. Have you both talked about this? You might find that she's just fine with this arrangement. You both need to continue having a sex life, even if it isn't with each other, so this might work out well for you both.
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