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Question: Why aren't I getting any inquiries?

Dear Lounge Advice,
I would like to know why people are looking at my profile, but not leaving messages that they would like to meet me. This is the April the 2nd and I have had 16 views of my profile, but not one message wanting to get to know me! What am I doing wrong on my profile! PLEASE HELP ME on how I can make my profile more pleasing to where people will write me!
Thank you for your help in this matter. It is greatly appreciated!



Dear (Anonymous),

1) You're a single male. Singles males are the least sought after on a swinger's site. It takes a rather long time of built if rapport and presence to make it as a successful single male. Patience will be a virtue here.
2) You only have one picture, so nobody really gets a good idea about your overall appearance.
3) You can't just expect people to come to you, especially as a single male. Expect to do most of the footwork yourself. Otherwise, you probably won't have any luck.
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