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Dear Lounge Advice,
I'll make this as simple as can be. The wife and I are wondering what the "magic" formula is to meeting people on this site? We are an attractive couple who have become serious about meeting people for (lack of a better term) "fun" . We have posted pix a couple of times but don't seem to get any response. Maybe theres no attraction to our pix...we're not sure....we certainly don't want to give up on such a "great" site. but are becoming a little frustrated with some of the members. Maybe there's a magic word?...who knows...we have, therefore turned to you two for advice.....
any would be appreciated
thanks, hono and wife
We are going to cut to the chase and give you our first impressions on what you put in your profile...because to be honest with you two... we have no idea what you guys are about.. what you like to do.. other than you have kids.. you are busy... and you like to travel. Thats not saying much about your lifestyle preferences.
The first question in the profile is to describe your appearance and personalities... you may wish to be more to the point there...
As far as the second question in the profile...what you are looking for... we both have no idea what your answer means... truthfully we both reread it a few times.. and it makes no sense to us... and we are usually pretty good at decifering what people are meaning...
We think that people come to the site with an idea in their mind what they are looking for in others... it extends beyond mere pictures... but you also have to look at what the pictures are saying too... they are your first impresions.. we often question what people are thinking when they choose which ones to post. But everyone comes here looking to meet others... others who they feel would make a good match...
You have to think of your profile and pictures as pieces of a puzzle... the more pieces you put out there.. the greater the chance of finding pieces that fit what others are looking for...
You can be the greatest couple in the world and we dont doubt that you two may be just that.. but there is very little evidence to what you guys are all about from your profile.
There are also other things you can do to get more involved in the site to meet others... have you considered entering any of the photo contests? How about the Forum section? Consider making your feelings known... its a great way to expose yourselves to others who read the postings... and this is also another insight into your personalities...
There is so much to do on this site.. and so many ways to get your names and pictures and personalities out there... and ya know what.. you end up having a lot more fun doing it!
Let us know how it goes...
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