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Question: FYI

Dear Lounge Advice,

Why do women lie about how they feel.
Ha ha ha, we are on the skids. I was so far out in front of her and did not even know it. When she was with other women I asked her if she had an orgasm or if she was even aroused and she told me yes. Now she tells me she did not enjoy it and it was all about pleasing me, and now I feel like a rapist. To all women, if you do not enjoy what is going on SAY SOMETHING!!!!! Trust me, we will stop.

It is not fair to expect your man to INTUIT or FEEL what you REALLY want. Be honest for goodness sakes, otherwise do not expect us (the men) to understand what you REALLY WANT if you do not tell us. It is so unfair. I feel as if I were tricked into being the asshole that ALL men are and I really resent it. If you do not want to participate in this lifestyle let us know and maybe, just maybe we will respect your wishes.

Pissed
Me

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

FYI
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