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Question: What's the etiquette for approaching single men for myself?
Dear Lounge Advice,
This is the female of a couple. My husband & I have decided to try something new for us in the lifestyle. We've always played together, never w/out each other. We're wanting to experience 1 on 1 play w/out each other. Being the female, how do I approach a single guy in the lifestyle about 1 on 1 play? Do I make the hotel arrangements? If he doesn't mention splitting the room expense how do I bring up the subject w/out scaring him off or should I be responsible for the room since I approached him? New territory for me, help please!
New to Me
You should be responsible for the room since you are doing the approaching. If he offers to help, great, but you should definitely take this responsibility.
Approaching the men is the easy part. 99.9% of single men on this site would leap at the opportunity you're presenting, so just ask! You'll be surprised at how easy it is if you're just forthcoming.
Trust me.....you'll see. Have fun!!
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