Dear Lounge Advice, How does the first time work? I've never done this and not sure where to meet, what to wear, how things progress, what to do when it's over.... It all feels very awkward to me. Help! thanks! Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), This question is a bit grand in scale. Perhaps you could help me out and tell me a little about yourself and what you're seeking in this lifestyle so I can guide my answer to you a bit more. Be as specific as possible :)