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Question: How often should I call them ?
Dear Lounge Advice,recently i met a very sexy middle aged woman at a local club that has recently reopened under a new name. It didn't take long before we were engaged in a pretty steamy conversation that lead into her asking me if i would like to meet her friend (a man) for some 3 way play and possibly some pics and video if i was comfortable w/that.The night was extremely fun.The highlight was during dp both of us in her coooch.About a week or so went by and her friend called me up and invited me to join him w/a different very sexy woman.Again the experience was awesome.The common problem is that i was unable to get off both times.I have not heard from anybody in a while.I know that we all honestly enjoyed each other.I really want to play with my new friends but i am unsure of how many times i should call them or how often i should call them because i do not want them to become annoyed.I have called 3 times and feel that is enough until they call me back.What do you think i should do?THANKS JIM
That's quite enough. If they wish to have you back, they will call you. Just don't make a pest of yourself, or you're bound to come across as desperate. As for you not getting off, that's not a problem. Please don't worry about that. My own husband rarely ever gets off.
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