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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
How do I use this website to find someone?
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
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Relationship Advice
Now I don't know if I can trust him.
Does the lifestyle break up couples?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
What swing club or clubs in Las Vegas are couples only?
Glory Hole any where near the Twin Cities area?
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Question: Drama!

Dear Lounge Advice, we recently met a couple that we click with right from the start,, the female half of the couple constantly kept telling me how attracted she was to me..statements like. "you dont know how much I like you". This didn't bother me as much because I knew where I was with my own spouse. The male half like my wife allot and kept wanting her to call him at home, email him allot and basically wanted a girlfriend relationship...the wife would get very personel with me to to point of telling about her dislikes with her husband and the fact that she will leave him when her child gets married in the next year.. Finally the male half wrote and ended the relaitonship because he stated my wife was not into it enough..the wife then called me the next mornig and said she was sorry that her hubby ended it..and wanted to make sure I was not mad at her.. I thought about for a couple of day and then wrote her a tried to explain that my wife didnt want a boyfriend relationship. The female then started defending her hubby and wanted no more contact...question who are the flakes her...sign confused..



Dear (Anonymous),

Whoa!!! You need to break it off with these people, period! If you continue to allow them into your lives, you're placing your own relationship in peril. They shouldn't even have been in the lifestyle in the first place with all of their issues. If you want what is best for your own relationship, don't let this go any further. Cut it off immediately. I mean it.
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