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Question: New to this and unsure of how to proceed

Dear Lounge Advice,

Iam completely new to the lifestyle... I have recieved numerous emails daily from couples and staight males.... I've yet to meet with anyone but do need to get my real seal.... Im neverous about my first time not sure how to respond or what to do or what is expected..... I don"t have any of the sexy outfits or shoes just led the plain boring sex life for many yrs.. what advice do u have for someone who is trying to spice up thier life but not sure how to begin?

Thanks.... anonymous



Dear (Anonymous),

Then here's your chance to let the other person(s) lead the way. Sometimes being new to this and allowing the others to lead is one of the most highly erotic experiences you can have. Plus, if you allow someone else to take the lead, you can take notes along the way. Being the 'learner' can help you ease into this lifestyle and gradually take the reins. You really don't have to worry about doing much, especially if you choose an experienced couple with whom you can have fun. Just enjoy the ride and learn along the way :)
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