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Question: How do we make couple feel more at ease around us?

Dear Lounge Advice,
Can you give us any advise on how to make couples feel more at ease around us? We are are not accepted by most and feel on the outside.I am a bodybuilder and my wife is a gym rat as well.

I love my sport and I don't want to tone it down so do you have and advice?




Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

This is a tough question to answer. Unless I've been around you, I'm not sure how to truly offer you advice. How do YOU feel that you come across to others. Are you down to earth, but perhaps project a 'tough' image unconsciously? Are you a very good looking couple that may come across as 'stuck up' despite your true personalities?
I suppose a good starting point is to ask you this:
How do you think others perceive you and why do you think they aren't warming up to you?
How do you interact with a crowd? Do you stand back and wait for others to approach, or do you take the initiative to meet and mingle with others to show them that you're approachable?
I need more insight on the dynamics of your interactions before I can steer my advice in the correct direction.
Write me back :)
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