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Question: How to Booty Call and not lure our friends out all the time

Dear Lounge Advice,

We have had great success with the Booty Call feature. Unfortunetly, we've had to use it less and less. We can see what friends are online and they email almost immediately when we post the Booty Call. Its great, we love them to death, and would never sever the relationships.

However, we find ourselves out with the same people all the time and want to meet and have sex with new people as well.

Do we wait for LL to come out with an "anonymous" Booty Call thats just like the one in the Advice feature. Some people are good at laying it on the line with friends, some of us are not. How do you handle it, especially when you may see them out later?



Dear (Anonymous),

Ouch. I can certainly see your dilemma here. Of course, you want to keep your friends as friends and spare their feelings. So, naturally, you cannot let on that you're putting our a Booty call to meet others besides them. So, the best thing to do is refrain from using Booty Call until an anonymous feature is somehow installed. Instead, try e-mailing a few profiles in your area of your intentions. This way, locals will know of your plans and they can choose to join you if they wish. If your friends do show up, don't say anything. Just try a new tactic privately.
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