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Question: We have not found many couples with bi-sexual females.

Dear Lounge Advice,

My husband and I have been in the lifestyle for about 2 years and have had great experiences.

I am bisexual and prefer to have another lady join us while he is just a "tramp" (lovingly) when we go to socials. Unfortunatley most of the women he socializes with are not bisexual or not attracted to me or visa versa, our rule is that we stay together, but lately it seems we are unable to "party" with anyone due to this handycap?

any suggestions?

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Handicap?
Thats is funny.....That is the usual complaint we hear from women who are NOT bi-sexual when they talk about the other women at the couples clubs and socials.

One thing that struck us is when you say, "the women he socializes with.." Where are you while he is socialing ?

Our rule is that we stay together too... and that includes when we are socializing as well as playing. People see us as a couple and a "package"

As a couple if we approach another couple or female that we are attracted to, Zoey will ask them right off the bat if she is into girls... if not... we don't waste our time as we are only looking for bi fems... or couples with bi fems. Its not that we brush them off or are rude to them.... but our rule is our rule.... and anything else is not worth pursuing.

We can understand your frustration though.... we have never been to a lifestyle function where there were more straight females than bi fems...

Consider moving... LOL... or take a vacation to South Florida !
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