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Question: Love unreciprocated

Dear Lounge Advice,
I am not in the lifestyle, but was with a woman who at one time was, and wishes to go back to that lifestyle without me.
After 3 months with her, I fell for her, and she did not fall for me, after reading lifestyle web sites and articles it appears to me that one of the rules is you don't cross boundaries(fall in love), but I sincerely believe she is also in love with me and is masking her feelings by saying such things as she doen't know what love is. Messed up in Joliet.

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

One of the rules of the lifestyle is that you're not supposed to fall in love with someone if you're already in a relationship. If you do feel that this woman is in love with you, don't push things. If this is the case, a little breathing room will do her good and she will come around. She does sound as if she is confused, so let her sort her own feelings out for now. It's a time for patience,not pushing things unnaturally.
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