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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
Does DP increase the chance of a vaginal infection?
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
How can I help her to feel more comfortable about returning to the lifestyle?
It could be a dealbreaker....
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
I would like to be able to meet bisexual females in Santa Monica west side area
Does my large size stop me from doing this?
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Question: Pursuing a single female

Dear Lounge Advice,
My man and I are looking to find a young woman to have a threesome with. Where do I start looking for her? We want to do this soon and have never done it before, but I have to set it up and I want it to be safe and with someone we are attracted to. Any advice.



Dear (Anonymous),

This is something that most swingers are seeking. It takes much time, patience and persitance. Unfortunately, it's not a quest that's fulfilled quickly, if at all sometimes.
If a couple really wants to have a MFF experience with an attractive woman, I'm an advocate of hiring a professional. This may seem unorthodox, but it's sensible. If it's the experience that matters, and there is no requirement for friendship or further interaction, an escort can provide this. The sex is gauranteed, she is experienced and confident and you don't have to waste a lot of time chasing after the elusive 'single female' who may or may not even go through with the deed.
About safety, the safety risk of hopping into bed with someone, professional or not, is still present. You never will know someone's sexual history, so it's not proper to assume that a 'regular' gal will be any safer than a pro.
Just a thought.
If you're still set on pursuing a single female through the site, check the advice archives for some previously rendered advice.
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