Dear Lounge Advice, I am very turned on when i think of my wife with me and another man. i get mad at myself that i should never even think this. Is ther something wrong with me? Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), LOL!! Oh dear, not at all. That's a wonderful fantasy you have in mind and it's pretty common around here. It sounds like you may be bearing a bit of guilt based on society's expectations of how we should act in a marriage- namely not straying or inviting others into our marital bed. If you think this would be fun, try it! I'm sure your wife would love it. Don't be so harsh on your naughty thoughts. Spice things up a bit and let your fantasy come to life :)