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Question: Wife claims I forced her to swing for 12 years

Dear Lounge Advice,
About two months after I first met my wife, she told me wild stories about her sex life. She was a wild thing, who had done threesomes and wild public sex. I wa stunned, but turned on. She told me she wanted to be gang banged while I watched. That was 12 years ago, and she has fullfilled my wildest fantasies. She now tells me that she those stories were about her girlfriends, and that she was a "good girl" when she met me, that I corrupted her and forced her to have sex with the 200 men that I watched her fuck for the past 12 years.
I was looking for a fun, wild woman when I met her, and I in no way made her do anything she did not want to do. She now blames me for 12 years of wild swinging. What is up with that?
A previous wife and girlfriends pulled the same trick, Theytold me all about their wicked past and then later denied ever engaging in wild sex.
I want to continue our wild sex life, but she is determined to make me a "Charles Manson" who forces her to engage in group sex.



Dear (Anonymous),

Well, if that's the case, then be a good husband and keep yourselves away from the lifestyle. After all, if you're the one 'forcing' her to swing, wouldn't it be in her best interest not to do any of this anymore? Since she truly hates this life and how you 'make' her do it, then she'll be okay with not doing any of this anymore, won't she?

Give her what she seems to want. If she doesn't want to leave the lifestyle, then you can call her bluff.

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