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Question: My wife doesn't come during play with others

Dear Lounge Advice,

My wife and I have been swinging since Aug and for the most part we have enjoyed meeting new people and playing until one day my wife tells me that she have never came while having sex with our friends. Now me being a man I cum everytime. I really feel that the enjoyment is to have that mind blowing CUM explosion!!!! so if my wife is not having that enjoyment then why do we stay in the life style? My questions is should I do the right thing and stop swinging even though she tells me she is enjoying herself, or should I contiune to swing knowning that she is not having that mind blowing CUM session like I'm having. I don't want her to be doing this just for me!!!!!!.



Dear (Anonymous),

Well, it's good that you're concerned about your wife's happiness.
Did you ask her why she can't come? I'm sure that will illuminate things.
It's not necessary for everyone to orgasm while playing. My husband, more often than not, doesn't. But he still enjoys himself. Sometimes, I can't do the deed. But hell, I still love having sex.
Maybe your wife can only truly let herself go enough to orgasm with you.
Talk to her about your concerns and go from there. I bet this isn't as serious as you think it is ;)

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