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Question: My husband and I have decided to try the lifestyle. How do we get started?

Dear Lounge Advice,

Hi, my husband & I have been talking about this for some time now. and have desided to try the swing life. But I am a little nervous. I have wanted to try this for a long time but did not know how to start something, or how to even go about meeting another female/or couple. So any advice would be nice and very helpful.

Thanks so much.



Dear (Anonymous),

Well you certainly made a great choice in joining the Lifestyle Lounge... this has become an excellent place to meet couples just like yourselves....

What you may wish to do also is check for any local lifestyle couples clubs or parties and socials in your area.

The most important thing to remember is to take it slow at first... read some of the previous postings in this column.... and go at your own pace...

This is all new ground for you and absent columns such as this and this website.. there are not many resources to go to...

We would also advise that you read our regular website at www.zacnzoey.com There may be many questions answered for you there.

Just remember that wherever you go.. its ok to just observe at first and dont feel like there is any pressure for you to advance any quicker than you are comfortable with...
Let us know if you have any other specific questions that we can help you with...

Good Luck and HAVE FUN!!!
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