Dear Lounge Advice, We are new to LL but have been in the life style for a while now. We are finding it difficult meeting people on LL and am wondering if you have any suggestiongs? Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), LL's members are primarily concentrated in the midwest area, particularly in Minnesota. Those of us in the East Coast and West Coast are less likely to find a bulk of members from our area. Your profile looks great and it's filled out nicely. Are you willing to travel? We have found that if willing to travel, we meet many great members from this site. We used to live in North Carolina and the LL membership there is very minimal, so we traveled. If travel doesn't fit into your lifestyle right now, consider additional swing site memberships to cast a wider net.