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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Does the lifestyle break up couples?
How do I reel him back in or can I?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
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What can a SM do in the crazy world of LA swing?
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Question: My new man doesn't know about this

Dear Lounge Advice,

i am dating this wonderful man... but he dosnt know that i go to places like this.so what should i do????

thank you shorty77386



Dear (Anonymous),

Be honest with him. If you continue this while continuing your relationship, you are only heading toward hurting him. Eventually he will find out, whether by himself or from you telling him. Either way, it will cause distrust. Tell him now ifyou care for him or you will undoubtedly suffer the consequences later on. I hate to sound like a fortune cookie, but I've seen this happen too many times.
Ya know what?? I'll bet that he's intrigued by this, so don't be too scared about letting him in on it!
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