Dear Lounge Advice, i am dating this wonderful man... but he dosnt know that i go to places like this.so what should i do???? thank you shorty77386 Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), Be honest with him. If you continue this while continuing your relationship, you are only heading toward hurting him. Eventually he will find out, whether by himself or from you telling him. Either way, it will cause distrust. Tell him now ifyou care for him or you will undoubtedly suffer the consequences later on. I hate to sound like a fortune cookie, but I've seen this happen too many times. Ya know what?? I'll bet that he's intrigued by this, so don't be too scared about letting him in on it!