Dear Lounge Advice, I am an attractive, athletic 44year old male. I had a partner up until recently. She was too possesive, and did not fit the LL profile well enough. We did attend two event, but the Live event was the end of our relationship. How would you suggest I try and meet single females that might be open to the Lifestyle. I'd like to hit some local clubs, events for LL folks. Any suggestions for San Diego County. Thank you, par3eagl Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), You should contact local members for recommendations about local venues. As for meeting a LS friendly single woman, please peruse our advice archives. You'll find that this is a common question and there are a multitude of answers that address this. If you need something more specific other than what has been posted already, feel free to come back and ask more questions.